Author : Jim Gustafson
Here is an important question. What is your deserve level? We all have one. We all have a level, an amount, a limit on what we believe we deserve. It is a reflection of the way we see ourselves. The money we earn, the work we do, the score we shoot, and the happiness we experience are all governed in quantity and quality by our own personal deserve level. When we don't get what we deserve, we find a way to get more. When we exceed our deserve level, we find a way to relinquish what we perceive to be excess. We rise and fall to the level we feel we deserve. Deserve level applies to our attitudes and acquisitions, as well as our position and possession. Changing your deserve level can change your life.As children, we see the world revolving around us. When our sense of security, value, and love is threatened, we adapt to that condition. We quickly come to believe that what we experience is "the way the way our world is." We see ourselves as receiving what we deserve. After all, as children we have nothing with which to measure or compare. We emotionally accept as much or as little as we are given. We believe what our parents and others in authority tell us about ourselves. As we mature, these experiences become our internal regulators. Some people have unreasonably high deserve levels. They believe they are entitled to have anything and everything regardless of the expense to themselves or others. Most of us, however, have allowed artificially low caps to be placed on our deserve levels. We unnecessarily limit our participation in life's abundance.We run hard to get to where we think we should be and then we stop. Maxwell Maltz writes, "Accept yourself as you are. Otherwise you will never see opportunity. You will not feel free to move toward it; you will feel you are not deserving." Discovering the gap between who we really are and who we learned to be is one of the greatest discoveries of a lifetime. With this awareness we can choose a new path and fill-in the gap. We can unlock that which binds us. We can move on to fulfill the opportunities that are uniquely our own. We can get all that we truly deserve.Go ahead, Fill-er- Up you deserve it!http://www.jimgustafson.com
Keyword : Deserve, belief, self confidence, self esteem, success, achievement, freedom
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